Question:
Ok, I see this Lady always at the front desk at a bank( she is a teller ), and I am kinda liking her. But I say nothing else besides, hi how you doing, want to deposit this. How can I break the ice, true there is a 50% chance of rejection, and also I don’t want to hit on a girl on her work place. So how can I get this lady , in a smooth manner ?
( I post this question here , and not in the dating section, to avoid clueless teens, though I am was clueless)
I have a dirty joke here but I won’t go there..
I would just up right and ask her if she wants to go for a drink after work or something…being upfront works most of the time.
do what my hubby did…
make or if you have a buisness card with only the numbers on it to contact you.
Write on the back…call me when you have time, or movie and dinner tomorrow?, or something like that!
if she’s interested, she’ll call!
Start asking her minor personal questions, that will let you know where she is at relationship-wise. Maybe ask her what she does when she’s not a work. Just ask her some questions about herself then maybe you can ask her if she ever would date a customer. That should break the ice and get you started. Good luck!
Just tell her how nice she looks.
When you see her just try stiking up a converstation like, are you here all the time. well it makes my day brighter whenever i see you.
Or something like that.
You will have to strike up more converstations with her the each time you see her, for her to gain your trust. Then you will know when the time is right.
The only way to know is to just go up to ger and start conversation ask her how she likes her job here and tell her about your job, then ask her if she’d like to have more talk over dinner? the worse than could happen is that she says no. but atleast you’ll be sure. DO NOT ACT PERVERTED WOMEN DO NOT LIKE THAT.
Ask her if she is ever tempted…..(with a smile and a twinkle in your eye)…..then look to see if she blushes and ask what you mean….. then reply ever tempted with all this money around you, then you can ask her what she thought you ment. (blushing is a good sign) Any way. Next time you come in just tease her some find out if she has a boyfriend or a husband, then tell her something you like about her. Just be confident, but not cocky, take your time and get her to notice you, then let her know you notice her too.
I think a simple way to “break the ice” would be to write her a note.
Say:
“I’ve always enjoyed having you do my banking, but I would really enjoy an opportunity to get to know you better (if you are single of course)… Would you join me for dinner at *enter resturants name here* tomorrow *or when ever you feel is best*?
Have two boxes with a “Y” in one and a “N” in the other…
“Check yes or no
”
This way… she can read the note privately while you are at the counter… and can give you an answer right then. If she says yes… give her a paper with your number on it.
she probably gets hit on all day long by guys. So you don’t want to come off as just another horn-dog. Take it slow. Start trying to come in when its not that busy and make causal conversation to start, after a while do the business card thing. this way you know if she’s just being nice b/c its her job or if she’s really into you.